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We Need to Talk About Ableism and COVID-19

The issues that disabled and chronic condition communities face as a result of the pandemic are being ignored too easily.

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My Journey to Becoming a Chronic Illness Advocate on Social Media

Writer Nia G. discusses her journey to becoming a social media advocate after her chronic illness diagnoses.

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When You See Us: Cancer Helped Me Find My Purpose — Encouraging Others to Advocate for Their Health

Eboney Thompson shares how her breast cancer journey has led her to advocacy work after a misdiagnosis, but with the support of her children.

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How Fatigue Changed My Mindset as a Disability Activist

Hustle culture and the pandemic made me hit a breaking point. I was exhausted, but being an activist made me want to fight on. Now, I live by a different mantra.

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What It’s Like Being Chronically Ill in the Time of Wellness

Unsolicited medical advice is exhausting — and sometimes even plain rude. The wellness industry needs to wake up to the realities of living with a chronic illness.

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What I’ve Learned About Self-Advocacy When Living with a Chronic Condition

When living with a chronic condition or disability, finding and using your voice is a must.

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When You See Us: How Shifting My Assumptions Changed My Cancer Journey

It's human to feel like screaming after a cancer diagnosis because you have fears about the future. But if you stay present, you can learn to listen instead — both to those around you and to yourself.

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As a 23-Year-Old Professional Dancer, I Had to Fight for My Breast Cancer Diagnosis

Having a support system that advocated for me was my fighting technique in a medical system that told me I was too young to have breast cancer.

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Why Representation Matters for Women of Color in the Breast Cancer Community

Women of color, specifically Black women, are treated as outliers in the breast cancer community.

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Bezzy BC Ambassador’s Journey Builds Meaningful Friendships

Meet Christina Green, an ambassador with Bezzy BC, and learn more about her breast cancer journey and the support systems she leans on.

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These Two Breast Cancer Survivors Are Reclaiming October — Here’s Why

Trish Michelle and Tiffany Dyba are tired of the pinkwashing surrounding Breast Cancer Awareness Month. So they're stepping up to make a change.

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How I Balance Advocacy and Privacy Living with a Chronic Condition

Some days, sharing about my life with MS feels useful and authentic. Other times, I'd rather keep the details to myself.

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When You See Us: Navigating the Burden of Being Strong

The most important lesson I learned during my breast cancer treatment is that you don’t have to carry everything on your own.

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Bezzy BC and For the Breast of Us Partner to Create a Safe Online Community for Women of Color with Breast Cancer

Bezzy BC and For the Breast of Us are partnering to create a safe online community for Women of Color with breast cancer.

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8 Reflections on Life with a Chronic Condition During the Pandemic

Bezzy community members share their experiences of living through the COVID-19 pandemic with a chronic condition.

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#WhenYouSeeUs: Elevating the Experiences of Women of Color in the Breast Cancer Community

Women of color are underrepresented in the breast cancer community. This organization is changing that.

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How Actress Angela Trimbur Created an Online Community of Breast Cancer Survivors

For actress Angela Trimbur, connecting with other women who know what it’s like, especially during the COVID-19 crisis, has been invaluable.

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How to Cope When the World Seems to Have Moved on from COVID-19

As public concern over COVID-19 wanes, many people who are immunocompromised are feeling left behind. Here are six tips for caring for your body and your mind during this time.

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Feeling Unseen and Unheard: Is This Medical Gaslighting or Something Else?

Not feeling fully supported in healthcare settings can be common. It's important to know why you might be feeling this way — whether from medical gaslighting or from limited medical resources — and what you can do about it.

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5 Lessons from the Pandemic That Promote Inclusivity

We can continue to learn from the pandemic and encourage inclusivity in our everyday practices.

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Medical Gaslighting Is Real, and It May Have Happened to You

A patient’s word should be believed. You shouldn't need to fight to advocate for your health when you're feeling your worst.

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Spotlight on For the Breast of Us: An Organization Dedicated to Being a Resource for Women of Color

Women of Color are disproportionately affected by breast cancer. The organization For the Breast of Us aims to provide resources for these women to find the support they need.

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When You See Us: Living Life to the Fullest Despite a Terminal Diagnosis

There’s no use revisiting the past, and I don’t want to focus on a future that may or may not be.

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On Breast Cancer and Poetry: Writing to Keep Hope Alive

The act of putting pen to paper helped me unleash emotions, confront my changing body, and raise my head to face the darkest hours of my life.

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When You See Us: How I Found Deeper Meaning in Life After a Metastatic Breast Cancer Diagnosis

Two decades in, I can say that my experience living with metastatic breast cancer has led to me focusing on every moment and finding deeper meaning in my life.

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Am I Oversharing? 8 Tips for Navigating Social Media with a Chronic Illness

There are no perfect answers for how much to share and how much to hold back, but there are guidelines that might help you determine the right approach for you.

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Recognizing Signs of Medical Trauma When You Live with a Chronic Condition

Medical trauma is real but sometimes it can be hard to recognize. If you live with a chronic condition it is especially important to be aware of how traumatic medical scenarios can have lasting effects. If you have experienced medical trauma, it is important to know you are not alone.

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When You See Us: How Breast Cancer Changed My Mental Health and Helped Me Build Community

You hear about how being diagnosed with cancer changes your life, but I didn't expect it to shift my thinking so much.

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Men Get Breast Cancer, Too — But We Often Lack Support to Get Through It

More awareness of breast cancer in men is necessary so that we can get the support we need to detect and treat it sooner.

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Understanding Grief When It Comes to Your Chronic Condition or Disability

Having a chronic condition or disability can mean living without a lot of things. It’s important to talk about this grief and find ways to cope.

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From Physician to Patient: My Journey with Breast Cancer

As an emergency room physician, Kavita Jackson, MD, saw many patients with breast cancer. But it wasn't until her own diagnosis that she truly understood what people endure.

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Please Stop Calling My Breast Cancer a Fight

When I was diagnosed with cancer, I was suddenly thrown into a fight — or so I was told. The mental toll of my so-called cancer fight weighed heavy and I soon decided to choose my own words.

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I’ve Been in 4 Clinical Trials for Breast Cancer: This Is What You Should Know

Writer Caroline Johnson shares her experience with breast cancer clinical trials. Even if a trial fails, she knows she's paying it forward for future generations.

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When You See Us: Staying Flat and Finding My Way to Advocacy

Ginny Shudlick is an Asian American woman who was diagnosed with breast cancer in her early 40s. Learn why she turned to advocacy work after cancer.

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Sewing Myself Back Together: Overcoming the Hurdles of Breast Cancer

There are four hurdles I've had to face in overcoming breast cancer: Chemotherapy, surgery, radiation, and the emotional recovery to sew myself back together.

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6 Things That Aren’t Helpful to Say to Someone with MBC — and What to Say Instead

Friends and family may have tons of questions about your metastatic breast cancer diagnosis. But sometimes, it's better if they say nothing at all.

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How I’m Making Peace with the Never-Ending Pandemic

Those of us living with a chronic condition are used to navigating an unknown future.

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Confronting the Shock of a Triple-Negative Breast Cancer and BRCA1 Mutation Diagnosis

When I came across two masses in my breast, I tried convincing myself that it was nothing. But I was sure it was cancer.

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Why I Advocate: Speaking Up for My Own Health Empowered Me to Support Others

Becoming an advocate for my own health helped me be a better resource for other women with breast cancer.

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The Emotional and Physical Roller Coaster of My Breast Reconstruction

My breast reconstruction was transformative and healing, but it was also emotionally challenging.

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Unhidden’s Founder Talks About Creating Clothes for Every Body

Providing dignity and identity to those living with disabilities is at the core of Unhidden's mission. Learn more about this adaptive clothing brand that featured at London Fashion Week.

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20 Celebrities Who Are Part of the Breast Cancer Community

The range of celebrities who have shared a breast cancer diagnosis includes teens, men, and many outspoken advocates for the cause.

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Why I Advocate: Jackie’s Breast Cancer Story

As an ambassador for the Bezzy BC community, Jackie Scheuerman offers the peer support she wishes she had when she was first diagnosed.

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Meeting My Mastectomy Scars and How I Cared for Them

I thought I would hate my scars. But the aftercare process taught me to treat them with respect. When I finally saw them, it wasn't what I expected.